"When was the first time You experienced being the only one?"
the only white person, the only black person, the only female... the only male... the only young person... the only asian person... the only older person... the only latino person... the only native indina person... the only handicap person... etc

...Still Growing

Last night I preached at Third CRC here in Kalamazoo. I stood before this all white group feeling somewhat inadequate and awkward. Culturally I stood out and UP.  I witnessed what God spoke in my heart on reconciliation and harmony with Him and others. After the service I can see now how God broke through with one brother's comment which was actually a hopeful encouragement.  He told me he liked black gospel music and said he had visited a black church and he enjoyed it..  I had discounted this comment but the enormous courage that God gives me is truly Him.  My husband says thAT I AM BOLD.  ITS A GOD THING.  I am humbly being open and obedient and praying to be used more.

Sometimes we ethnic folk take any comment from a white brother or sisteer that refers to anything familiar as a negative stereotype. I want not to be defensive. I want to be a better listener through my own bias. Sometimes I have to practice what I preach.